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Wednesday, December 13, 2017

Christmas Traditions Box: Indoor Snowball Fight

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When we lived in California we dreamed of a typical white Christmas. But the only white Christmas we got was sand. I didn't complain and we still got some type of "snow" when we made our own snowballs for an indoor snowball fight. They were a "hit" if you know what I mean.

I posted the instructions on how to make these snowballs years ago. I am posting them again for you now.



You will need the following three things to make these:

1) Scissors

2) White or cream-colored nylons- I buy the cheap $1 pair at Walmart. (In the photo are knee-highs that I already had on hand. A full pair works better and you'll get a lot more out of them.) One knee-high can produce up to 5 snowballs. One leg of a full pair of nylons can produce about 10.)




3) Poly-fil to stuff the nylon.



What you're going to do:

1) Grab a handful of the Poly-fil and stuff your stocking (just enough for one snowball). Then make a knot.


2) Make ANOTHER knot after the one you JUST made, leaving a little space between the two knots.


3) Cut between the two knots.


4) Repeat steps 1-3. Below is something you can do but you MUST remember to do step 2 or else you will waste a whole snowball.


Here's what you'll have:


We made hundreds of these last year for a Christmas party we had.


HOW TO PLAY:

If you are going to have a snowball fight, divide the group of people into two teams and divide the snowballs equally between the two teams.

Create boundaries. You can either put some masking tape down on the carpet to divide the room in half, or play on an indoor basketball court, or anywhere that has a boundary line. The teams must stay on their side of the line and cannot cross it.

Set a timer. Let them fight for 5 minutes or however long you'd like the fight to go on. You can have "rounds" of fights if you'd like.

At your signal, the teams will begin to throw snowballs at the other team. When time is up, each team will count the remaining snowballs on their own territory. The team with the LEAST amount of snowballs on their side is deemed the WINNER! (I like this part because they have to clean up the snowballs to see who the winner is.)

This is a great game for preschool, play dates, Christmas parties, birthday parties, office parties, or at home with your own family.

St. Lucia and Swedish Cinnamon Star bread

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This morning we celebrated St. Lucia. St. Lucia Day is a Swedish holiday celebrated at Christmastime on December 13th.


St. Lucia was a young Christian girl who secretly brought food to the Christians in Rome who were hiding in the catacombs under the city in order to save themselves from persecution. She wore a crown of candles on her head to light the way and keep her hands free to carry as much as she could. She was sadly killed for her faith in 304 AD.   
Schools and little towns celebrate St. Lucia today in Sweden with a procession with a girl dressed as Lucia, and sing carols. Other children, both boys and girls, dress in white and are part of the procession. 

On December 12th we read Lucia Morning in Sweden and prepare our gingerbread cookies and saffron buns. In the early morning the girls dress up and we surprise Grandma (my 1/2 Swedish mother-in-law) with the cookies and buns. 



This year we decided not to do the saffron buns because my kids don't like them all that much. However, we did research a new Swedish food and ended up making Swedish cinnamon star bread. Swedish star bread is a mid-summer tradition but it looked so good that we gave it a try. And it was! And it was beautiful! We tried THIS recipe and it was a lot easier than I thought. There are a lot of steps but it goes quickly and it's fun. Don't let the lengthiness of the recipe deter you from making it. 


First make the dough and let it rise. Divide the dough into 4 equal pieces and let the dough rest for 15 minutes. After it rests, roll out the dough into 4 thin rounds and topped them with melted butter and sprinkle with sugar and cinnamon. (The recipe says to keep the top layer plain- no butter or sugar/cinnamon. I didn't listen. It also called for egg instead of butter. I like butter.) Stack the 4 rounds on top of each other. Place a 10" plate on top of the dough and cut around the plate to create a nice clean circle.


Place a 2-3" diameter glass, cookie cutter, or lid in the center of the dough. Do not cut through this circle.


Cut the dough in to 4 pieces, then 8 pieces, and then 16. 


This is where it gets fun. Take 2 pieces right next to each other and twist the two outward at the same time, twice. Repeat with the remaining pieces.

 


Pinch the ends together to create a point.


Cover the dough again and let it rise for about 45 min - 1 hour. When it has risen, brush with egg whites and bake.


 Final product! It is nice and soft.


Dust with powdered sugar or you could even try a little glaze. 


This was perfect. It was delicious! It was a hit with everyone. 

We have been enjoying finding out more about our heritage and adopting some of the traditions of our ancestors.

Friday, February 15, 2013

Positive Attention Rewards

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I have a sweet little 4-year old can behave well at times and get into trouble at times. She's a normal toddler. When she gets into trouble, she gets disciplined and loses privileges and such. However, when she behaves well and helps out, she normally gets a couple of words of praise and that's it. The scale of discipline and praise isn't quite balanced.

As I thought about it, I wanted to reward my daughter with something that let her know that she was appreciated and valued for her help and good behavior. However, I did not want to give her treats, toys, stickers, etc. I wanted the rewards to be special.

I came up with some "Positive Attention Rewards." They are basically rewards that require the parent (me and/or my husband) to give positive attention to the child. That's what all children want. They just want some attention. 

I put the following rewards on craft sticks and put them in a little jar. At the end of the day, my daughter gets to choose a reward for her good behavior and help during the day. These are some of my daughter's favorite activities. Some of these activities we do during the day anyway, but they are extra special at night because 1) my daughter doesn't really look forward to bedtime, and 2) daddy is home to join in on the fun.

Positive Attention Rewards
  • schedule a play date with a friend
  • love notes from mom & dad
  • play a game with mom & dad
  • go on a short walk and visit a neighbor
  • 10 minutes of art before bedtime
  • extra story at bedtime
  • extra song at bedtime
  • stay up extra 10 minutes
  • dance party
  • 10 minutes of computer games
  • free choice activity (game, craft, paint nails, etc.)
  • 10 minutes of cuddles at bedtime
  • massage (she likes arm and feet massages)
  • pick what's for breakfast, lunch or dinner
  • laundry basket ride (child sits in laundry basket and mom or dad pulls child on carpet, like an indoor sled)
  • wrestle with mommy and daddy
What I have noticed lately is that my daughter really wants these rewards at night so she is working harder to behave better during the day. I also want her to get these rewards so I'm trying my best to look at the big picture and let the little things go. It has also brought a fun feeling into our home because we are happier at night when we get to play together as a family before bedtime. 

If you have other suggestions for rewards, please leave a comment. I'm always looking for new rewards to add to the jar. 

Thursday, June 21, 2012

How to Wash Stuffed Animals

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Have you ever tried to wash your child's stuffed animal in the washer? I have.


The first one never quite made it out the same. My daughter's favorite fluffy little puppy quickly turned to nappy little puppy. It was clean though... (sigh). 

Luckily, I bought a backup puppy- I buy a backup of my children's favorite attachment items (blankets, stuffed animal, etc.). 

(nappy, sad, little pups)

(New puppy, old ruined puppy)


I figured out how to wash the new puppy without ruining it. 

You will need a pillowcase and a hair elastic without metal.




Place the stuffed animal in a pillowcase and tie the pillowcase off with the hair elastic.




Throw the tied pillowcase into the washer and wash in warm or cold water. Use fabric softener.





Put the washed pillowcase/stuffed animal bundle into the dryer to dry. Dry on low.






When your stuffed animal is dry, hopefully it will look AND feel like it did when you bought it.





CLEAN! (And still fluffy and soft!)



 My daughter loves her new "Snow Puppy"



Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Tips For Summer Reading With Your Child

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Summer is a great time to read with your child. Most libraries offer a summer reading program that encourage children to read while school is out.


Besides the importance of education,  reading can also be an opportunity for you to bond, show your love for your child, and learn about him/her- how they think, what kinds of things they like, etc.


May I offer some tips for reading WITH your child this summer:
  • Pick a comfortable and clean spot to read with your child. Pick a place where distractions are limited. If your child is young, have him/her sit on your lap. If your child is older, sit somewhere where you can put your arm around your child.
  • Use different voices for different characters. This helps distinguish characters and attitudes.
  • Let your child choose the book- unless it is inappropriate. It may be boring to you but they will love reading more if they are interested in the topic. I hated being forced to read certain books in school but I loved reading the books that I got to choose. 
  • Help your child choose a book that is fun and interactive for both of you. Mix it up. Read some pop-up books, hidden object books, touch and feel books, lift-the-flap books, and finger puppet books. 
  • Get your child his/her own library card and let him/her use it often! Take your child to the library!
  • Don't rush through the book. Take time to read. Don't be a "book cheater!" Don't summarize, skip paragraphs, or pages. If you don't have a lot of time, it's okay to tell your child to pick out a shorter story.
  • Ask questions. (i.e. What do you think is going to happen? What would you do? How do you think that made (character) feel? How would that make you feel? What do you think (character) could have done instead? What did you think about this book? Did you like it? What was your favorite part?
  • Explain what new words mean and try to use them in every day life. Reread the book and ask your child what the new word means. This will help to expand your child's vocabulary.
  • If you are thinking about buying your child a gift for his/her birthday or other occasion, think about giving your child a gift card to the bookstore. It will give them an opportunity to choose their own book.
  • Don't underestimate used bookstores. We love the Berenstein Bears books but it adds up when you're forking out $4 for each book. It makes it easier to buy gently used books for one or two bucks instead.
  • Make reading with your child a habit. Start now. 

The Red Kitchen Blog has a cute, and FREE reading chart. Click HERE to view and print. 


Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Get Your Kids to Clean!

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We were invited over to a friend's home for dinner a couple of weeks ago. He and his wife have 3 darling children. During our conversation about parenting he asked his son, "Why did mommy and daddy have kids?" His 5-year old son said, "So we can work!" Our friend continued and said, "That's right! We don't have a cow for you to milk or feed so we have you do other things instead to keep our family running."


He has a point.


As a former high school teacher, I was amazed by how little responsibility my students had as members of their family. I performed a little informal survey. Were they required or expected to clean their rooms, make their beds, do their own laundry, do the dishes, etc.? Surprisingly, no! WHAT??!! What happened?? These are grown people who are going to be living on their own in a year or two and don't know how to start a dishwasher?


All I know is that I'm starting my kids early. My 3-year old LOVES to clean. I'm running with it! I got her a tote ($1 at Target) with her own cleaning supplies so that she can help me. It was cheap and easy to put together. 


In the tote:

  • Spray bottle ($1 at Walmart) filled with water
  • Small broom and dustpan ($2 at the grocery store)
  • Mini squeegee ($2 at the grocery store)
  • Extra rag
  • Sponge 
  • Scouring pad (6 for $1 at the grocery store) which we will NOT use on the dishes.





So, what can your child clean?


Here's a list of things he/she can clean (or should learn how to clean, or know how to clean) at each age:


2-3 Years Old
Pick up toys, books
Clean glass tables 
Wipe up messes
Take laundry to laundry room
Put clothes in hamper
Dust with sock on hands
Push in chairs after meals
Sort silverware
4 Years Old

Take dishes to sink after meals
Make bed
Clean room
Put groceries away
5 Years Old

Vacuum
Empty garbage cans
Straighten rooms
Clear table
Clean up after pet
6 Years Old

Dust
Load dishwasher
Empty dishwasher
Clean sinks
Mop floors
Fold and put away laundry

7 Years Old
Wash dishes

Clean toilets
Pull weeds
Rake leaves
8 Years Old
Clean mirrors

Sweep floors and patios
Clean windows

9 Years Old
Vacuum interior of car

Wash car
Straighten/organize drawers

Straighten/organize closets
10 Years Old
Clean stove
Clean oven
Do own laundry completely
11 Years Old
Clean refrigerator

Clean cupboards
12 Years Old
Iron own clothes

Mow lawn
File papers


Other Ideas to Consider:
  • Teach your child how to do each task. Show them how to do it. You may have to show them more than once. Be patient and accept their efforts, even if the job isn't perfect.
  • Don't stereotype the chores. (ex. mom cooks, dad mows the lawn, kids clean the bathrooms, etc.) Take turns doing all the chores. It will only empower your child when they get older.
  • Don't pay your child for every chore they do. Children need to do certain chores because they are part of the family. Children can earn money by doing extra chores or tasks. This helps eliminate the sense of "entitlement."
  • Hang a chore chart to see what has been done/needs to be done. If your child can't read, draw pictures to represent the chores. Check off the list with stickers. 
  • Before bedtime, do a "15-minute pick-up." Everyone must participate for those full 15 minutes- picking up and putting away things that are out of place and straightening up the rooms. We like to see how much we can do before the timer runs out. 
  • Click HERE to print cleaning cards. Each card is a checklist of things to be cleaned in a room of the house. These are great to pass out to your children to make sure they don't miss anything. I love these cards! 

Good Luck!


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